I am getting so much better at saying no. It requires a lot of effort for such a simple two letter word. I don’t want to be busy, I don’t feel any need to adhere to anyone elses expectations of how my life should be. I’m not a mirror to anyone elses life, and I don’t have to explain my life.
I don’t want to be busy. I don’t want to attend events I’m not interested in. I don’t want to be around people who make me sad, anxious or judge or not support me.
I do want to be around real people, people i can talk to, who cares. They know who they are. I love the idea of saying no to things. It’s not rude, it’s self preservation and we are all entitled to it. Be gone obligation.